Love comes from you, not others! I just figured this out!! Thanks to some help from some of the most amazing friends I have ever known. This love, this thing I have been trying to get from everyone else for so long, this thing I feel so lost without and “can’t live” without those who I think give it to me, comes from me! Not them!
It’s in you! How could it be otherwise???
M.
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I’m glad for you, and especially that you have ‘amazing friends’ – they can be thin on the ground – but I’m not sure what kind of ‘love’ you mean. Have your friends gone through divorce? Thankfully I haven’t, but I have friends who have gone through awful marital break-ups that have torn away at their children too. I surrounded by the remnants of people who felt incredible love for people and have had it destroyed. Like they had it as their own, gave it and shared it, and all for pain as a return. But like you say, it remains in you as a seed. Despite all the gory dismemberment of their lives as couples and families, I still see a nobility and a love in them. I guess I have amazing friends too.
i too am glad that you have so many friends who care and love you…i too have that with my closest and dear friends…passion flows through and the love we have is unconditional love…i guess i could say they support me through thick and thin and have been there throughout my life…some of which i’ve known since kidergarten and still keep in touch…my college buddies and i have that kind of love like we’re just inseperable…no one could come between us…believe me when i say…i’ve gone through divorce…but still love my best friend…she is the mother of my 2 kids…but up until this day…we still love each other…but we went on with our seperate lives…she’s amazing…i still keep in contact with her…and she with me…but friends all the same are always behind me 110%
Awesome that you had this epiphany all of the sudden. It took you long enough. Everybody wants to be loved. But love which we give is what counts. You can’t be selfish all the time. It’s ok to be selfish a little bit. Just a little bit.
Love is mutual.
“Never, in truth, does the lover seek without being sought by the beloved.” – Rumi
“Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert Heinlein
“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.” – Taylor Hanson
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